is it TIME FOR YOUR TEEN TO EMBARK ON
A LIFE-CHANGING JOURNEY OF SELF-DISCOVERY AND LEADERSHIP?

How great would it be to know your teen is ready for any challenge and that they have discovered their purpose, vision and motivation to be in the driver’s seat of their own life?

Why You Need This Product

Can you remember how it felt growing up?

Your teen years were probably confusing, frustrating and full of growing pains; maybe you felt you couldn’t express who you were, or you had to fight for your choices.
 
Other times maybe you felt worthless or you just “went with it” because you didn’t want to be left out.
 
Let’s not forget about those moments where you didn’t have the strength to express your views because you were lacking confidence, nobody believed in you and you felt that success was constantly out of reach.

It was hard, right?

That's how your teen is feeling right now.

They are under pressure at school, maybe they don’t feel at ease saying what they think or maybe they wear a mask, or put up walls and act out to pretend they are strong and can fit it. They are bombarded with negative messages about their worth, from both friends and the media.
 
They have no clue yet about what they want and they probably believe they will never manage to achieve the goals that are hidden in the depths of their heart.

As a parent, you see everything and you understand it. Sometimes it hurts you. Other times it gives your protection instincts a boost. You see what’s holding them back and you know that there’s a lot of untapped potential. You wish they could see themselves through your eyes.

From the moment you’ve become a parent, you’ve spent most of their lives wondering whether you’re doing okay, teaching them everything they need to know to actually become functional adults who can thrive, be happy and make a positive impact on themselves and others.

Now they’re in their teen years, you know they are going through pivotal changes. You want them to see what you see and ensure that they are going to be okay on their own – even when you’re not around to protect them.

So you worry, you start researching and reading about how to lead them on that journey, and at every new corner you stop and ask yourself;

"how can I do more and give them everything they need?"

That's where XTL Discovery comes in

Discovery Online is a 3-day intensive leadership weekend created to help your teen acquire the tools that will unlock their potential and turn them into leaders of their own life.
 
This program gives teens the opportunity to embark on a journey that will lead them to discover and experience living life at their highest potential. They will gain clarity on who they want to be in the world and their legacy. They will receive the tools to overcome any obstacle.

Throughout the training, we empower teens with new emotional and social skills that help them create success in life. We offer them critical leadership distinctions and tools to thrive in every situation and identify their “Why” that will guide them in life.
 
By the end of this intensive weekend, your teen will leave with increased confidence, they will feel at peace with who they are and they will be ready to start working on their biggest dreams from a clear space.

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select NC, NY, or Online

What Parents Are Saying...

So impactful in such little time

The changes I have seen in my daughter have been mind-blowing. I’ve never seen a program so impactful in such little time. Thank you Tamrah Barber for helping Haley be the best version of herself she can be. I HIGHLY recommend this program.

ODESSA WATERS  |  Parent

No investment in our twins has been this transformational

I am a proud Extreme Teen Leader parent! No investment in our twins has been this transformational! After the first evening in Discovery Level 1, my son got in the car and said ``I think there's another training and I want to go!" That was after ONE evening in the program! Grateful and inspired by the opportunities Extreme Teen Leaders is offering to our communities. Proud to be part of this movement.

CLARISSA KUSSIN  | Parent

It helped her navigate the tricky years of teen life

I cannot say enough about XTL! This is an amazing program that has changed my daughter's life. Not only has it helped her navigate the tricky years of teen life, it has given her high impact communication skills and turned her into a leader in her own world. Tamrah and her staff pour themselves into the teens and are making such a difference in the world. I highly recommend it.

HALLIE BALBERCHAK AGOSTINELLI |  Parent

The greatest gift you can give your teen?

An opportunity to embrace how much they matter in this world and the tools to rock their present and future life. 

Discovery Online is a program developed to give teens an opportunity for self-discovery.

Throughout the weekend, they participate in exercises that allow them to identify behaviors that hold them back and they move into a space of self-awareness. Once their eyes are opened, they can see which beliefs and experiences impact them and what they need to do to let go of beliefs that don’t serve them, so they can start their journey of self-love, forgiveness and connection.

This experience leads to a newly found openness where they learn new tools to overcome challenges and explore new possibilities.

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select NC, NY, or Online

Here’s the Discovery Transformation - Module by Module:

Discovery is made of 12 modules, each of them taking your teen through a specific process and experience that will help them to forever change the way they see themselves, reach academic success and create the life they truly want.

Teens will begin to distinguish how their points of view affect their daily decisions and experiences.

They now examine how they relate to their family, parents, friends, and community.

We will then walk them through a process to distinguish what it takes to be a leader in the world.

At this stage, your teen will identify behaviors that hold them back from being the best they can be.

Next, they will begin to identify self-limiting beliefs.

In this module, they will examine and challenge their points of view.

Once they are entering self-awareness, they will gain new tools to overcome challenges and explore new possibilities.

Your teen will now begin to powerfully choose how they relate to themselves and others.

Time to envision and have an opportunity to powerfully choose what’s next in their life.

They will gain an understanding of how the unique power of language affects all of life’s experiences.

In one of the most powerful processes of the weekend, they will experience forgiveness of themselves and access forgiveness for others.

In the last module, your teen will take responsibility for their choices, actions, and results.

The training is hosted by Tamrah Barber, Founder and President of Extreme Teen Leaders, Inc. and creator of XTL360™. Thanks to her experience as a mother and 20+ years as an ICF certified coach, she and her team will work with your teen to transform them and take them through a process of discovery that will have them leave the training with a feeling of empowerment, connection, and awareness.

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select NC, NY, or Online

Here’s the Discovery Transformation - Module by Module:

Discovery is made of 12 modules, each of them taking your teen through a specific process and experience that will help them to forever change the way they see themselves, reach academic success and create the life they truly want.

Teens will begin to distinguish how their points of view affect their daily decisions and experiences.

They now examine how they relate to their family, parents, friends, and community.

We will then walk them through a process to distinguish what it takes to be a leader in the world.

At this stage, your teen will identify behaviors that hold them back from being the best they can be.

Next, they will begin to identify self-limiting beliefs.

In this module, they will examine and challenge their points of view.

Once they are entering self-awareness, they will gain new tools to overcome challenges and explore new possibilities.

Your teen will now begin to powerfully choose how they relate to themselves and others.

Time to envision and have an opportunity to powerfully choose what’s next in their life.

They will gain an understanding of how the unique power of language affects all of life’s experiences.

In one of the most powerful processes of the weekend, they will experience forgiveness of themselves and access forgiveness for others.

In the last module, your teen will take responsibility for their choices, actions, and results.

The training is hosted by Tamrah Barber, Founder and President of Extreme Teen Leaders, Inc. and creator of XTL360™. Thanks to her experience as a mother and 20+ years as an ICF certified coach, she and her team will work with your teen to transform them and take them through a process of discovery that will have them leave the training with a feeling of empowerment, connection, and awareness.

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select FL, NC, or Online

What Other Parents Are Saying...

I highly recommend Extreme Teen Leaders

Tamrah Barber is a skilled facilitator who is truly living her life purpose by creating sacred spaces for personal and community development for teens and families. I highly recommend Extreme Teen Leaders. Tamrah sees all of the potential that our young adults have and helps them to realize it by teaching them the skills to navigate their life experiences authentically.

HEIDI MULLIGAN WALKER  |  Parent

A must in every middle and high school

This seminar should be a must in every middle and high school! The teens coming in do not go out the same they are improved! My daughter enjoyed it and got a lot out of it. I highly recommend sending your teen!

MOCHE HAZOUT  | Parent

What Our Teens Are Saying...

These people are absolutely amazing...

I had a great time this weekend on the ropes course and in the room. I feel like we became much closer as a team but we still have a long way to go and that blows my mind that I can have a better relationship with each one of you. It's crazy that we came from not knowing each other at all to loving and caring for each other so much. Looking back, we've come so far and I'm so excited to go forward with this team and I'm happy to be doing it with each and every one of you.

I am strong, beautiful, and confident!

This weekend each one of you contributed to changing my life in the most positive way possible. Walking into this I was confused, had no idea what to expect and no idea why I was even here. After the 23 hours we spent together, I found something special in each of you. I love you all EXTREMELY much, and thank you deeply! I AM STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, AND CONFIDENT

I can see the world as what WE declare it to be

With a team in front of me to hold the lenses of pure possibility to my eyes, I can see the world as what WE declare it to be: a world of love and not hate, a world of peace and not war, a world of acceptance, a world of authenticity, a world of connectedness. Even though sometimes our vision for the future may be blurred by the nearsightedness of impatience, hindsight is 20/20. Eventually, we will look back to see the hurricanes of change we created with a simple flap of our wings.

This will be one of the most precious investments you will ever make.

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select NC, NY, or Online

As parents we know that it’s our responsibility to ensure our children have all the teachings, skills and tools they need to thrive. There are many moments though – especially when they’re facing their teen years – that we question ourselves and feel insecure or worried

“Are we giving them everything they need?”
“How can we reach out to them powerfully?”
“What’s the best way to show them they’re holding themselves back?”


The truth is -- we cannot always do it all by ourselves!

Extreme Teen Leaders, Inc., with its programs, was born to support families going through this.

We know your wish is to have a healthy teen who knows how to interact with others, express themselves and overcome any challenge. Especially those they’ll face when you’re not around to protect them.

Teens are under great pressure from such a competitive world and every day they have to face negative messages around their self-worth, which often leaves them feeling confused, inadequate, lacking confidence.

At the end of Discovery Online, your teen will be a different person.

They will leave the training feeling inspired, confident and with a sense of purpose.

They will start walking a new path, with new friends who are on the same journey.

They will have new tools and skills to communicate with you and their peers, to voice clearly their views and express who they are and to start loving themselves.

You will see the difference and you will feel proud of them and reassured that their self-worth and inner leader is now unlocked, shining through and ready to make choices from love and not fear. 

Are you ready to see them tap into their great potential and
Live their best life?

XTL Discovery is included in the XTL360 Journey
Select NC, NY, or Online